I made the same New Year’s resolution for years.
“This year, when people think of me they will think ‘Wow, that Shelley…. she really has it all together!’”
And every year I was still a mess! Frustrated, lacking focus, procrastinating and feeling bad about myself. And I would give up, feeling defeated…. yet again.
I wonder if you can relate?
I wish the next thing I had to say was “Now I’ve got it all together - let me show you how in three easy steps!” But that is not reality. I still don’t always have it together.
Instead I have come to understand that “having it together” looks different for each of us. I have learned about how my brain works (and how yours works, too) and how to work with it instead of against it.
I learned some great strategies for the important things and I learned the importance of support and accountability. I also learned that NOBODY has it “all together” and that WE get to determine how we measure our own success.
And that has changed my life.
And I think these things may change your life, too!
